Thursday August 30th marks a new school year in Cheshire. Many tears will be shed-some will be tears of joy and some will be tears of apprehension. For some, this day marks the beginning of the end, especially for those who are now seniors in high school–for others, this day marks the beginning of the beginning. The first separation of child from parent. It is a turning point for both these groups. Hopefully everything will go smoothly. For my kids, Thursday, August 30 will be the equivalent of trying to jump start an engine on a car that has not been used for nearly 3 months. Oh well, good luck to all the parents.
Now it has come to my attention that there seems to be a problem with some people in the Town Government regarding the purpose of my website.
First of all, I am just going to say this–The Undergroundtownhall does NOT condone anyone writing anonymous letters that contain threats or verbal abuse or name calling. I have said this before and I will keep saying it. I don’t know what some people in the Town Government think is going on with my website. I get the feeling based on what this person told me that they think I am “encouraging” people to engage in this activity. I am not!! Anyone who knows me knows that if I have something to say to someone, I say it to their face, and if I write a letter, I put my name on it. I cannot control what adult people are saying or doing. And for me to have to hear from a very trusted source that I am encouraging people to write derrogatory letters to the town regarding the home invasion in July to get some sort of revenge is just plain disgusting.
I am sure some of the letters that were received by the Town Government were awful, as was indicated in a recent Town Council meeting, but to have someone contact me with information that some people connected with the town think I had something to do with it is just plain assinine.
You know what the trouble is with the people who run this town-they think their shit doesn’t stink. They started it. I really love people who step on other people’s toes and act surprised when they get a reaction.
The bottom line–I backed up the Cheshire Police Department when the issue arose regarding the time line in relation to the home invasion, but that doesn’t mean I am stupid. Many things in that issue do not make sense and unfortunately we all may never find out what really happened. When you step to people, many of them get angry. Those letters, whatever they say that is negative, is a reaction-a frustration. Stop the nonsense in this town with the ticket ticket ticket and the bullying tactics and the censorship as a way of “controlling” people and maybe most of the unsavory comments will stop.
I remember when I first moved here, my husband told me he was participating in town events, political and non-political. At first I didn’t think anything of it. But then, several years later, a local resident asked for my husbands’ help in a traffic ticket matter. The local resident took the matter to court and it got in front of a judge. The judge actually threw the matter out-he dismissed it because some information provided by the authorities was conflicting in nature to put it mildly.
After that I started noticing strange things beginning to happen. My husband started coming home and telling me he was getting pulled over and receiving tickets for things like passing a car on the right that was turning left, (i.e. where it was legal to do so); not stopping behind the white line at a stop sign or not stopping for three seconds ) personally, I can’t see how one can tell how long someone is stopped at a stop sign without a stopwatch). I know my husband, I know he doesn’t speed and he stops completely at stop signs. In fact, I used to yell at him for going to0 slow.
Every time we got into the car after that he would always say “I have to watch it, I have to drive even slower.” The man was traumatized. In fact, the local resident we helped also noticed the same things.
The kicker was the night several years ago that my husband had to go to the aid of his mother who had a medical emergency. She called on the phone late at night. My husband started to go to her house when low and behold out of the darkness with no lights on parked on a side road that my husband would only use to go to his mothers house as a shortcut, was a cop. My husband got pulled over and told he did not stop at the stop sign fully.
When my husband came home that night he was practically in tears. He said he could not believe it. I will tell you, if it were anyone else, I might have had doubts, but I know my husband obeys the speed limit and traffic sign laws. If you don’t believe me, drive behind him! From that day on even until today he always tells me-be careful-stop fully-look how fast you are going. I told him I don’t cower in any boy’s town- I don’t cower to anyone.
You know I don’t condone law breaking or speeding or any thing of that sort that is not the point. You all know what the point is. Using law enforcement to keep people in their place and afraid is WRONG!! And I am NOT blaming the rank and file on the CPD. I am blaming the town government They are just doing what they are told. I am on their side!!
Several years ago I was coming home from work when I accidentally had turned my high beams on when making a right turn onto Rt. 68-70. I didn’t realize I had done it. The car in front of me kept slamming on their brakes. Well, I guess the police saw what was going on and pulled both of us over near the local farm market. When the police officer got out of the car, he went to the car in front of me, then over to my car and said “we don’t want people like you in our town.” Case closed people!
I went in front of the town council and asked them what that meant. I never got an answer just stares. I remember being on the front page of a local paper (not the Herald-are you kidding?) and people seeing me around town telling me I was a hero for bringing up this issue.
From time to time I have had to go to the hospital for medical issues that is all I will say, they were not physical issues either. I remember when I got out of the hospital that night, I was sitting by the window in my living room and saw a police car driving by my house like I was some sort of criminal. If they had driven by somebody elses house recently on North Brooksvale Road the way they were driving by my house, maybe we would not have had the incident we had last month! But see that person wasn’t questioning or trying to speak out. I don’t even want to say what else transpired with my son’s supposed “highbeam” episode a few years ago now because it is too upsetting.
The Undergroundtownhall is a reaction to all of this and more. I started it because I had a hard time getting my cable shows on Channel 15 I have already told you the runaround I got with that issue a few years ago. Every time I wanted to air a show it was like pulling teeth and worse. I had to constantly hammer them at Cox to get the shows on-bascially because SOMEONE in the Town Government did not like the content-I was talking frankly about town issues. I even resorted to going on Joe Zdoncyks show in Waterbury called “You and Me Against the World” to talk about it. My 16 year old son that produced these shows can tell you what we had to go through. How do you think he felt?
That is why I decided to post a video player on my updated website so I could eventually re-air my own shows.
Now I feel upset again. I take a lot of pride in my website and I am really hurt over what I have heard from this person. I have had a sad feeling in my heart over it. It is bad enough I still have a hard time dealing with what was said to me several years ago when I decided to try to resurrect the idea for the police commission.: I talk to much-I have no morals-I am a criminal-you are a wacko-we are taking your kids away from you” Need I go on.
I can’t write anymore because of the tears in my eyes. My heart is forever scarred by all of this. My family is scarred from it also. I will never get over that never. I stopped things I was doing because I was so hurt by that. Mean and cold- that is all I can say about it. And I am not the only one I know it. There was an elderly resident who came in front of the ordinance committee last December and told his story. I will never mention his name but it is public record. I may run the minutes so you all can see but I will leave out this man’s name for his own peace of mind. Having a cop stand in front of his house all day waiting for him to see if he registered his car. His neighbors saw it. The poor man was embarrassed beyond belief.
You people who run this town can think and say what you want but you know the truth. You crashed and burned Cheshire!!! ”
“Oh Bridgeport, you are from there-oh its nasty!! “We don’t have to lock our doors here what do you think this is Bridgeport,” Â Yeah-right-who is in the news all the time now people?
And you know what, it wasn’t even someone from the “high crime areas” that we are supposedly surrounded by that did the last two crimes was it?
Never mind the live town council broadcasts and “we need the minutes posted on the town website”. Encourage people to come to these meetings. Maybe if there was more community involvement there would not be these issues. The people need to be in charge of this town. When the Town Council or Planning and Zoning meet, there is hardly anyone there! That is the problem. Get involved people!!!